FA 012 Collie's Follies and Metriko's Mistakes

Feral  Attraction
Episode 12 - Collie’s Follies and Metriko’s Mistakes 03/30

Intro 00:00:40

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Topic 00:04:45

Please note: this episode contains content that might be triggering to some individuals. Please review the show notes below for timestamps in order to ensure your continued emotional and mental well being. Thanks, and be well!

Viro 00:05:35

  • Learn to recognize when you are being led on by a partner

    • Don’t be a doormat for your partner

Metriko 00:12:00

  • Be resilient in the face of adversity

    • Metriko was incorrect, it was the New Yorker, not the New York Times who published the article about resilience

      • http://www.newyorker.com/science/maria-konnikova/the-secret-formula-for-resilience

Viro 00:24:40

  • Do not make large investments of time and money when you first get into a relationship; let the relationship grow organically.

    • Do not let yourself be blindsided or bullied into decisions that go against your integrity.

Metriko 00:41:40

This section contains potentially triggering discussion. If talking about sexual, emotional, or physical abuse is a concern for you, please skip to the next section.

  • Know when, and how, to get out of a dangerous, abusive relationship

Viro 00:57:52

  • Know when to end a LDR, whether it’s polyamorous or monogamous.

Question(s) 01:08:40

  • Is it OK to let your professional ambitions to get between you and your relationship?  Even for a short time?

    • Sammy Wolf via Telegram

Closer 01:16:45

  • Next week’s topic: AD Twitter Etiquette

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Metriko Oni

Metriko Oni is a former government environmental disaster mitigations expert with a focus on outreach, education, and policy writing. He now works with computers. He has been active in the fandom since 2013 and has been an advocate for transparent lines of communication. His interests include philosophy, media, futurism, and speculative fiction.